You still find yourself single? Even after dating different men whom you saw as the ones that met your criteria? The hard truth is; you’ve been choosing the wrong men.
Yes, it’s obvious, but this article is going to help you understand why you’ve been choosing the wrong men, then provide you with the knowledge and tip on how to choose the right man.
The thing is, there is probably a lot of reasons why you’re choosing the wrong men, but the big reason is: “You’re attracting the qualities you think you want in a man, and end up finding yourself understandably disappointed in the results.” To break it down; whether you realize it or not, you have created a mental and physical checklist of qualities that you evaluate the men you meet and date.
For example, you might have set your sight to be with someone who:
- Is over 6 feet tall
- Makes huge income
- Has a graduate degree
- Loves food and wine
- Doesn’t have children
- Passionate about his career
- Likes the hobbies you like
- Practices same religion as yours
And that’s the foundation of the problem, because is you’re attracting these men into your life. You might wonder why that is a problem? Here is why: These are not actually the qualities that definitely make a man the right one or choice. They are just the qualities that get you;
- The good on paper man that you like, but you have no spark with.
- The super sexy and wealthy man who refuses to listen nor commit to you.
- The intelligent and funny man who will selfishly disappear for weeks every once in a while.
- The man that your parents love because of religion, who is unwilling to compromise.
It never worked out with these men that met all of your requirements and it’s a good thing it did not. Otherwise, you would have ended up settling with a boring, emotionally unavailable, selfish, underdeveloped, uncompromising man just because they’re tall, successful, funny, and like to eat out.
HOW TO RECOGNIZE AND ATTRACT THE RIGHT MAN
Instead of attracting and then dumping these men or even settling for one of them; you need to reinvent what you’re looking for.
In order to stop asking (is he the one?), you need to upgrade your ideal/dream man checklist. Stop settling for “attractive qualities” and get on with the “lasting partnership qualities” you want to call in to.
The difference is; “Attractive Qualities ignite lust in you and turn you on. While Lasting Partnership Qualities make you happy in the long run.”
These qualities exemplify how your future partner makes you constantly feel and the way he treats you.
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTRACTIVE QUALITIES AND LASTING PARTNERSHIP QUALITIES
Though these qualities will vary from person to person:
Attractive Qualities include: Exciting; Cultured; Tall; Passionate; Successful; Funny; Fit; Spiritual/Same Religion; Same Political view; Sexy, etc
Lasting Partnership Qualities include: Consistent; Reliable; Committed; Kind; Happy; Sexual; Trustworthy; Healthy; Supportive; Stable; Attentive; Fun; Easygoing and lots more.
Are you ready to attract a man who will treasure you and treat you right? Then never settle for a relationship where your truest and most important needs are not being met. Remember, those needs are not for your partner to be tall or be successful; at least, those are not your only needs.
That’s why you’ll consider compromising on his height, if he is committed and honest.
That’s why you’ll consider compromising on external success, if he is attentive and supportive.
That’s why you’ll consider compromising on the hobbies, if he is sexual and trustworthy.
Stop giving your time and energy to men who can’t give you what you really and truly want. Instead, get clear on the qualities you won’t settle for, then go out into the world and call in the fun, loving, lasting relationship you desire and deserve.
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